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ResearchIn the Spring Term of 2003, 4 conferences were organised for Primary and Secondary students. Charnwood Arts prepared a wide range of activities to give students the opportunity to discuss the issue of bullying and look for possible long-term permanent solutions. As part of the first conference in February pupils created questionnaires to help gather responses from parents and the wider community. The questionnaires were created by the students and circulated to parents, students and staff. The purpose was to gain a detailed understanding of life in our schools and the extent and impact of bullying on the whole school community. The response was overwhelming with almost 6,000 questionnaires returned. The responses from the questionnaire showed clearly that incidents of bullying evoke great feeling and passion. Findings of the Primary Questionnaire - Parents (Spring/ Summer 2003)1002 PRIMARY PARENTS/ CARERS RESPONDED ![]() 1. Were you ever bullied as a child?
2. Did you ever bully anyone?
3. How do you think schools dealt with bullying in the past? (1 = well and 10 = very badly)
4. How do you think schools deal with bullying now? (1 = well and 10 = very badly)
5. From your experience:
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% of Parents |
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|---|---|
0 |
33.2 |
1 |
11 |
2 |
14.2 |
3 |
14.6 |
4 |
6.2 |
5 |
11.6 |
6 |
3.1 |
7 |
2.3 |
8 |
1.8 |
9 |
0.5 |
10 |
1.6 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
93 |
NO |
7 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
89.2 |
NO |
10.8 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
65 |
NO |
35 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
70.4 |
NO |
0.4 |
DON'T KNOW |
29.2 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
42.3 |
NO |
47.2 |
N/A |
10.5 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
28.2 |
NO |
57.4 |
N/A |
14.4 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
91.5 |
NO |
8.5 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
93.2 |
NO |
6.8 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
91.7 |
NO |
8.3 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
98.7 |
NO |
1.3 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
47.5 |
NO |
52.5 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
Playground |
66.7 |
Classroom |
22.0 |
Toilets |
6.9 |
School Bus |
4.4 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
Playtime |
43.8 |
Lunchtime |
31.3 |
In lessons |
15.6 |
After school |
5.4 |
Before school |
3.9 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
Spoke to school |
67.2 |
Spoke to child |
23.6 |
Spoke to parents |
5.9 |
Spoke to bully |
3.3 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
0 |
25.9 |
1 |
9.4 |
2 |
11.8 |
3 |
5.7 |
4 |
13.6 |
5 |
4.7 |
6 |
4.9 |
7 |
8.4 |
8 |
3.9 |
9 |
11.6 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
Inform school |
73.7 |
See bully's parents |
12.5 |
See bully |
3.8 |
Remove child from school |
1.6 |
Contact LEA |
1.4 |
Contact governors |
1.3 |
Other |
5.6 |

% of Parents |
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|---|---|
Home background |
28.7 |
Emotional problems |
26.0 |
Peer pressure |
12.4 |
Jealousy |
11.8 |
Power/ domination |
11.4 |
Bullied themselves |
5.2 |
For fun/ bored |
4.5 |

% of Parents |
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|---|---|
Strict policy |
36.0 |
Involve parents and pupils |
22.3 |
Educate pupils |
19.0 |
Improve monitoring and supervision |
15.8 |
Create positive ethos |
4.1 |
Remove/ exclude bully |
2.7 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
Help/ talk to the child about reasons |
54.8 |
Work with school/ seek advice |
28.2 |
Punish child |
13.3 |
Don't know |
3.7 |

Why do you think children bully?
"They fail to recognise that we are all connected to each other and should be selfless and not selfish."

What can schools do to prevent bullying?
"Promote self-esteem. Have a good policy where children can tell."
"Have an active approach with an Anti-Bullying Policy that children are involved in creating."
"Staff can set an example by making the topic one that is openly discussed and addressed within the class."
"Have older responsible children on patrols at playtimes."
"Show the effects of bullying by use of hard-hitting videos, presentations and talks detailing the effects of bullying."
"Stop ignoring it! Create a supportive environment where it is O.K to tell."
"Speak to child and child's parents, if it didn't stop – take parents to court. In severe cases of bullying the parents of the bully should be taken to court and given a large fine – parents should take responsibility of their child's actions."

What would you do if your child was a bully?
"Find the reason and try to help. It is not indicative of the lack of confidence in the system of education that we find it difficult to offer a postcode because of the sensitivity of this topic. Perhaps a parent governor could have responsibility for a bullying policy."
"Find out why and by who by talking to them and investigating what is concerning them and why they feel it necessary to take this action. This process would have to be carried out without aggression as I feel as a parent we should control aggression and lead by example as aggression is part of bullying."
"I would speak to him myself and tell him about my previous experience (which I have done already), which I feel has made my son understand how upsetting and hurtful it can be for an individual to be bullied . . . Some people manage in the end to cope with it, but it can also have the opposite effect and scar certain individuals for the rest of their lives."
"Try to find out why and ask the school for assistance to stop the bullying behaviour. If there is a problem in school that was not resolved by open discussion and policies in place, I would suggest a more pro-active solution. For example, peer counsellors - Year 6 pupils - who are trained to be a contact point for other pupils. Also the counsellors would discuss the problem and help the school to raise the profile of 'bullying' and its causes. Discussing bullying in School Councils would help as well.
"I have already spoken to my child about bullying and I have said that if anyone bullies you then hit back. I brought my children up not to hit back. But now I tell them to hit back because the teachers do nothing and nor do the Headteachers."
"Speak to the school and seek their advice. Playtimes are the most common times for a child to be bullied. Children tend to ignore the lunchtime supervisors and I therefore feel that if there was more of a teacher presence during these breaks there would be fewer incidents of bullying. In the past 4-5 years my child has informed lunchtime supervisors about problems in the playground and it has been ignored."
114 SECONDARY PARENT/CARERS RESPONDED

% of Parents |
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|---|---|
YES |
70 |
NO |
30 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
85 |
NO |
15 |

% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
57.5 |
NO |
42.5 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
59 |
NO |
41 |

% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
94.3 |
NO |
5.7 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
91 |
NO |
9 |

% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
0-4 |
51 |
4-5 |
21.5 |
6-10 |
27.5 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
84.3 |
NO |
15.7 |

% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
49.5 |
NO |
40.8 |
DON'T KNOW |
9.7 |

% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
Verbal |
44.3 |
Physical |
23.5 |
Indirect |
32.2 |
% of Parents |
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|---|---|
Playground |
29 |
Classroom |
23.3 |
Outside school |
20 |
Corridors |
15.2 |
Bus |
10 |
Other |
2.5 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
1-5 (YES) |
44.5 |
6-10 (NO) |
55.5 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
69.4 |
NO |
7.4 |
DON'T KNOW |
23.2 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
92.25 |
NO |
7.75 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
86.5 |
NO |
13.5 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
Guess (from behaviour) |
38.5 |
From school |
20.5 |
From friend |
20.5 |
Injuries/ appearance |
18 |
Other |
2.5 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
27.5 |
NO |
72.5 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
White |
91.75 |
Mixed |
3.1 |
Asian |
4.15 |
Black |
1 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
81 |
NO |
19 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
95.1 |
NO |
4.9 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
YES |
10 |
NO |
90 |
% of Parents |
|
|---|---|
Apply strict policy |
36.4 |
Involve student/ parents |
32.3 |
Educate students |
12 |
Remove / exclude bully |
8.4 |
Improve supervision |
6.7 |
Create positive ethos |
2.1 |
Train staff |
2.1 |


What do you think schools should do to combat bullying?
"Implement the school policy consistently."
"Peer mediation, staff intervention when necessary; in severe or long-term cases, inform parents and form individual plan to suit circumstances."
"Have a school council bullying session each month so children can go and confess to rather than go to a teacher."
"Encourage people to talk about it, and to realise its effects and causes and to stand against it in all forms."
"Follow up with parents, make sure that children are able to be themselves."
"Be aware, act quickly and involve the bully and the child being bullied in mediation."
"Adopt 'NO TOLERANCE' attitude. Take all cases seriously. Take action immediately. Deal with culprits immediately."
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