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Background to Bullying

Research

In the Spring Term of 2003, 4 conferences were organised for Primary and Secondary students.

Charnwood Arts prepared a wide range of activities to give students the opportunity to discuss the issue of bullying and look for possible long-term permanent solutions.

As part of the first conference in February pupils created questionnaires to help gather responses from parents and the wider community.

The questionnaires were created by the students and circulated to parents, students and staff. The purpose was to gain a detailed understanding of life in our schools and the extent and impact of bullying on the whole school community.

The response was overwhelming with almost 6,000 questionnaires returned.

The responses from the questionnaire showed clearly that incidents of bullying evoke great feeling and passion.


Findings of the Primary Questionnaire - Parents (Spring/ Summer 2003)

1002 PRIMARY PARENTS/ CARERS RESPONDED

Question Mark
1. Were you ever bullied as a child?

% of Parents

YES

44

NO

56

2. Did you ever bully anyone?

% of Parents

YES

7.5

NO

92.5

3. How do you think schools dealt with bullying in the past? (1 = well and 10 = very badly)

% of Parents

1

5.6

2

1.9

3

4.8

4

4.6

5

25

6

5.8

7

9.9

8

17.2

9

3.9

10

21.4

4. How do you think schools deal with bullying now? (1 = well and 10 = very badly)

% of Parents

1

11.9

2

10

3

16.3

4

9.8

5

20.7

6

7.1

7

8.2

8

11.5

9

2.2

10

3.2

5. From your experience:
a) Does your school have a problem with bullying (0 no, 10 serious problem)

% of Parents

0

33.2

1

11

2

14.2

3

14.6

4

6.2

5

11.6

6

3.1

7

2.3

8

1.8

9

0.5

10

1.6

b) Does your child's school take bullying seriously?

% of Parents

YES

93

NO

7

c) Are you confident that the school will listen to your concerns?

% of Parents

YES

89.2

NO

10.8

d) Are you confident that the school will tell you if your child is bullied?

% of Parents

YES

65

NO

35

E) Does your child's school have a bullying policy?

% of Parents

YES

70.4

NO

0.4

DON'T KNOW

29.2

f) Have you seen a copy of it?

% of Parents

YES

42.3

NO

47.2

N/A

10.5

g) Has it been explained to you?

% of Parents

YES

28.2

NO

57.4

N/A

14.4

h) Do you know what to do if your child is bullied?

% of Parents

YES

91.5

NO

8.5

6. Have you ever:
a) Talked to your child about bullying?

% of Parents

YES

93.2

NO

6.8

b) Given your child advice about bullying?

% of Parents

YES

91.7

NO

8.3

7. Would you tell a friend/neighbour if you knew their child was being bullied?

% of Parents

YES

98.7

NO

1.3

8. Has your child been bullied?

% of Parents

YES

47.5

NO

52.5

9. If yes, where did it take place?

% of Parents

Playground

66.7

Classroom

22.0

Toilets

6.9

School Bus

4.4

10. When did it take place?

% of Parents

Playtime

43.8

Lunchtime

31.3

In lessons

15.6

After school

5.4

Before school

3.9

11. What action did you take?

% of Parents

Spoke to school

67.2

Spoke to child

23.6

Spoke to parents

5.9

Spoke to bully

3.3

12. Were you happy with the way the school dealt with it? (1 = very happy and 10 = very unhappy)

% of Parents

0

25.9

1

9.4

2

11.8

3

5.7

4

13.6

5

4.7

6

4.9

7

8.4

8

3.9

9

11.6

13. What action would you take it your child was bullied?

% of Parents

Inform school

73.7

See bully's parents

12.5

See bully

3.8

Remove child from school

1.6

Contact LEA

1.4

Contact governors

1.3

Other

5.6

What Action Would You Take?
14. Why do you think children bully?

% of Parents

Home background

28.7

Emotional problems

26.0

Peer pressure

12.4

Jealousy

11.8

Power/ domination

11.4

Bullied themselves

5.2

For fun/ bored

4.5

Why Do Children Bully?
15. What can schools do to prevent bullying?

% of Parents

Strict policy

36.0

Involve parents and pupils

22.3

Educate pupils

19.0

Improve monitoring and supervision

15.8

Create positive ethos

4.1

Remove/ exclude bully

2.7

16. What would you do if your child was a bully?

% of Parents

Help/ talk to the child about reasons

54.8

Work with school/ seek advice

28.2

Punish child

13.3

Don't know

3.7


Significant Comments from Primary Parents and Carers

Question Mark

Why do you think children bully?

"They fail to recognise that we are all connected to each other and should be selfless and not selfish."

Question Mark

What can schools do to prevent bullying?

"Promote self-esteem. Have a good policy where children can tell."

"Have an active approach with an Anti-Bullying Policy that children are involved in creating."

"Staff can set an example by making the topic one that is openly discussed and addressed within the class."

"Have older responsible children on patrols at playtimes."

"Show the effects of bullying by use of hard-hitting videos, presentations and talks detailing the effects of bullying."

"Stop ignoring it! Create a supportive environment where it is O.K to tell."

"Speak to child and child's parents, if it didn't stop – take parents to court. In severe cases of bullying the parents of the bully should be taken to court and given a large fine – parents should take responsibility of their child's actions."

Question Mark

What would you do if your child was a bully?

"Find the reason and try to help. It is not indicative of the lack of confidence in the system of education that we find it difficult to offer a postcode because of the sensitivity of this topic. Perhaps a parent governor could have responsibility for a bullying policy."

"Find out why and by who by talking to them and investigating what is concerning them and why they feel it necessary to take this action. This process would have to be carried out without aggression as I feel as a parent we should control aggression and lead by example as aggression is part of bullying."

"I would speak to him myself and tell him about my previous experience (which I have done already), which I feel has made my son understand how upsetting and hurtful it can be for an individual to be bullied . . . Some people manage in the end to cope with it, but it can also have the opposite effect and scar certain individuals for the rest of their lives."

"Try to find out why and ask the school for assistance to stop the bullying behaviour. If there is a problem in school that was not resolved by open discussion and policies in place, I would suggest a more pro-active solution. For example, peer counsellors - Year 6 pupils - who are trained to be a contact point for other pupils. Also the counsellors would discuss the problem and help the school to raise the profile of 'bullying' and its causes. Discussing bullying in School Councils would help as well.

"I have already spoken to my child about bullying and I have said that if anyone bullies you then hit back. I brought my children up not to hit back. But now I tell them to hit back because the teachers do nothing and nor do the Headteachers."

"Speak to the school and seek their advice. Playtimes are the most common times for a child to be bullied. Children tend to ignore the lunchtime supervisors and I therefore feel that if there was more of a teacher presence during these breaks there would be fewer incidents of bullying. In the past 4-5 years my child has informed lunchtime supervisors about problems in the playground and it has been ignored."


Preliminary Findings of the Secondary Questionnaire - Parents (Spring/ Summer 2003)

114 SECONDARY PARENT/CARERS RESPONDED

Question Mark
1. Have you or any other members of your family been bullied?

% of Parents

YES

70

NO

30

School Policy

2. Are you aware of the schools policy on bullying?

% of Parents

YES

85

NO

15

Does the School Have An Anti-Bullying Policy?
3. Do you think the school policy is effective?

% of Parents

YES

57.5

NO

42.5

4. Have you seen a copy of the school policy?

% of Parents

YES

59

NO

41

Have You Seen A Copy of the Policy?
5. Do you know what to do if your child is bullied?

% of Parents

YES

94.3

NO

5.7

6. Have you ever talked about it to your child?

% of Parents

YES

91

NO

9

Have You Talked to your Child about Bullying?
7. Does your child's school have a problem with bullying? (0 not serious – 10 serious)

% of Parents

0-4

51

4-5

21.5

6-10

27.5

8. Does your child's school take bullying seriously?

% of Parents

YES

84.3

NO

15.7

Does the School Take Bullying Seriously?
9. Has your child been bullied?

% of Parents

YES

49.5

NO

40.8

DON'T KNOW

9.7

Has Your Child Been Bullied?
10. What type of bullying was it?

% of Parents

Verbal

44.3

Physical

23.5

Indirect

32.2

11. Where did bullying occur?

% of Parents

Playground

29

Classroom

23.3

Outside school

20

Corridors

15.2

Bus

10

Other

2.5

12. Were you happy with the way the school dealt with it?

% of Parents

1-5 (YES)

44.5

6-10 (NO)

55.5

13. Has your child witnessed bullying?

% of Parents

YES

69.4

NO

7.4

DON'T KNOW

23.2

14. Would you know if your child had been bullied?

% of Parents

YES

92.25

NO

7.75

15. Do you think they would tell you?

% of Parents

YES

86.5

NO

13.5

16. If "no" how would you expect to find out?

% of Parents

Guess (from behaviour)

38.5

From school

20.5

From friend

20.5

Injuries/ appearance

18

Other

2.5

17. Has there been many problems with racism at school?

% of Parents

YES

27.5

NO

72.5

18. Ethnic/Cultural background

% of Parents

White

91.75

Mixed

3.1

Asian

4.15

Black

1

19. Do you know your child's friends well?

% of Parents

YES

81

NO

19

20. Do you approve of your child's friends?

% of Parents

YES

95.1

NO

4.9

21. Has your child ever been accused of bullying?

% of Parents

YES

10

NO

90

23. What do you think schools should do to combat bullying?

% of Parents

Apply strict policy

36.4

Involve student/ parents

32.3

Educate students

12

Remove / exclude bully

8.4

Improve supervision

6.7

Create positive ethos

2.1

Train staff

2.1

What Can Schools Do?

Significant Comments from Secondary Parents and Carers

Question Mark

What do you think schools should do to combat bullying?

"Implement the school policy consistently."

"Peer mediation, staff intervention when necessary; in severe or long-term cases, inform parents and form individual plan to suit circumstances."

"Have a school council bullying session each month so children can go and confess to rather than go to a teacher."

"Encourage people to talk about it, and to realise its effects and causes and to stand against it in all forms."

"Follow up with parents, make sure that children are able to be themselves."

"Be aware, act quickly and involve the bully and the child being bullied in mediation."

"Adopt 'NO TOLERANCE' attitude. Take all cases seriously. Take action immediately. Deal with culprits immediately."

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